You knew him as your Ex. You don’t know him as my Man!

There is this song by Jana Kramer called I Got the Boy. In the lyrics it goes: I got the first kiss and she'll get the last She's got the future, I got the past I got the class ring, she got the diamond and wedding band I got the boy, she got the man … Continue reading You knew him as your Ex. You don’t know him as my Man!

Love: Is it something you must choose more than once?

One day, I was on You Tube and came across this video about marriage. In this video, there was a statement made that got me thinking; from a therapist stating that love is a choice that we make, and it is a choice that we must continually choose to make when we are in a … Continue reading Love: Is it something you must choose more than once?

Love: You only have to get it right once!

Here you are; right here in life; going through another "almost". An almost great relationship with an almost great guy; but something happens; normally something that sucks terribly. You know the story; the almost faithful one, honest one, ready to commit one and the almost thought you were the one for him one. The next … Continue reading Love: You only have to get it right once!

Life of a Step Mom: I am not the Friend.

" I just want to be their friend" . I have heard this from stepparents countless times. I have even heard this from parents. I personally have always found it strange for any adult to want to be friends with a child. Now the definition for friend is a person whom one knows and with … Continue reading Life of a Step Mom: I am not the Friend.

Life of a Step Mom: Holiday Seasons

My family calls me Martha Stewart . I am that person that loves making memories. I love it all; making homemade desserts and food to hot chocolate. I love playing Holiday music while the decorations are being put up. I am the one that's always grabbing a camera to freeze in time one moment of … Continue reading Life of a Step Mom: Holiday Seasons

I got Married and overnight became “That Woman”

Prior to getting married I will have to say I was a tad bit judgmental to the "needy" women I encountered. The women who in my eyes were needy  because they always called their man; or everything their man did seem to be so important as if the guy moved a mountain.  Every conversation sooner … Continue reading I got Married and overnight became “That Woman”