” I just want to be their friend” . I have heard this from stepparents countless times. I have even heard this from parents. I personally have always found it strange for any adult to want to be friends with a child. Now the definition for friend is a person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive … Continue reading Life of a Bonus Mom: I am not the Friend.
My family calls me Martha Stewart . I am that person that loves making memories. I love it all; making homemade desserts and food to hot chocolate. I love playing Holiday music while the decorations are being put up. I am the one that’s always grabbing a camera to freeze in time one moment of being happy and around loved ones. There’s so many crazy … Continue reading Life of a Bonus Mom: Holiday Seasons
Prior to getting married I will have to say I was a tad bit judgmental to the “needy” women I encountered. The women who in my eyes were needy because they always called their man; or everything their man did seem to be so important as if the guy moved a mountain. Every conversation sooner or later included their magical man. I use to think … Continue reading I got Married and overnight became “That Woman”
Being a bonus mom is more complex than some think. Everyday issues good and bad and the ways to handle them as a bonus mom Continue reading A life of a Bonus Mom : When there’s conflict what do you do? The Challenges and the Answers.