Life of a Step Mom: I am not the Friend.

" I just want to be their friend" . I have heard this from stepparents countless times. I have even heard this from parents. I personally have always found it strange for any adult to want to be friends with a child. Now the definition for friend is a person whom one knows and with … Continue reading Life of a Step Mom: I am not the Friend.

Life of a Step Mom: Holiday Seasons

My family calls me Martha Stewart . I am that person that loves making memories. I love it all; making homemade desserts and food to hot chocolate. I love playing Holiday music while the decorations are being put up. I am the one that's always grabbing a camera to freeze in time one moment of … Continue reading Life of a Step Mom: Holiday Seasons

I got Married and overnight became “That Woman”

Prior to getting married I will have to say I was a tad bit judgmental to the "needy" women I encountered. The women who in my eyes were needy  because they always called their man; or everything their man did seem to be so important as if the guy moved a mountain.  Every conversation sooner … Continue reading I got Married and overnight became “That Woman”

Love Sweets and Lows: Engaged Five Times and still a Romantic Part 4

Love #5 I was not looking for the L-O-V-E  after love #4.   I was just too tired and done with all the free love education. I  had great guys and screwed them over, I had a toxic guy; tried to keep him to a point of breaking my insanity. Then there was this missing piece … Continue reading Love Sweets and Lows: Engaged Five Times and still a Romantic Part 4

Love Sweets and Lows: Engaged Five Times and still a Romantic Part 2

Love #3 Chaotic! That is how the day went when we first met. It would take a whole separate blog just to recount that crazy day but in the middle of it all I was tapped on the shoulders in a crowded place by a stranger. I was full of energy and in my head I … Continue reading Love Sweets and Lows: Engaged Five Times and still a Romantic Part 2